Sunday, February 2, 2014

A Not So White Christmas

I'm not really sure why people hope for white Christmases.  Spending Christmas in Hawaii with 75 degree weather all week was one of the best holidays I've ever had.  I can't really say that I missed anything about the snow and cold.  After spending the last couple months shivering in a winter coat at work all day, walking around in shorts and a tank top was quite liberating.


The day we left was the first day we had snow that actually stuck in Ulsan.  And the entire city freaked out.  It normally takes me 45 minutes to an hour to get to work in the morning.  But with the light dusting we had, it took me two hours once on the bus to get there.  I was already only supposed to work a half day, but I was an hour late to work.  And, when I was nearly there (At least in terms of distance, not time) my supervisor called me and said that none of the kids were really showing up anyways and I didn't have to come in.  After spending an hour and a half on the bus at this point, I assured her that I wasn't turning back now.  When I finally got there, I sat in the office for an hour  while the few kids who braved the glitter watched a movie. Then left. I'd say it was a pretty easy last day of work.  
Our backyard from the condo


Our flights went smoothly and we met up with Alan's dad and brother at the airport in Lihue on Kauai.  The first thing we did when we got to the condo was swim in the ocean.  The weather was gorgeous and the water was warm.  Having a beach for a backyard is pretty darn nice.  






Throughout the week, we had a great mixture of rest and excitement. We took a helicopter tour around the island and saw some of the most beautiful scenery I've ever seen.





We also went snorkeling.  I had never done it before and I was awestruck by life, diversity, and colors in just the shallows of the ocean. 


This poor sea turtle washed up on the beach tangled in fishing line.  They roped him off while waiting for a vet to arrive.
Sea urchin...ouch!




We took a boat tour around the island.  And coming to Hawaii, I had only one goal in mind.  I wanted to see a whale. It was all I could think about on this tour.    And I did!  I saw a whale!  Better yet, I saw four!  I couldn't snap a picture in time, but I did get a shot of the friendly neighborhood dolphins.  


The boat tour was really enjoyable.  We had to get up well before dawn, but seeing the sunrise on the ocean was quite the experience.  



And the term "sea legs" has a whole new meaning for me.  It wasn't exactly a relaxing cruise through the waters.  The crew somehow seemed to move about the cabin and deck as if we bobbing along rather than chopping our way through the waves at high speeds.  But the rest of us had to cling to the rails, walls, tables, and each other to keep from falling or flying.  

The crew was really pleasant and they all had cool stories to tell.  I was somewhat disappointed with the snorkeling location since there wasn't as much to see, but if sea sickness doesn't bother you, then I'd say the day was overall a great experience.  





The Filer men and I rented bikes one of the days and we took a long bike ride to a remote beach. 


We took a nice long hiking trip in Kokee State Park.  At the top of one of the mountains, there's a green picnic table to find.  We hiked all the way up to the top and found it.  

Green picnic table at the top



Alan and I took a kayak/hiking trip down the Wailua River.  We were the first ones out on the river that morning and we got to be the first ones to hike to the "Secret Falls".  The way there was long, hard to follow at times, and as dry as it could be.  

I don't think Alan appreciated the mud too much.

But it was well worth the hike.  













We also had some adventures just relaxing around the condo.  Feral chickens are ubiquitous on Kauai and we had a couple of chicks that kept coming back to see us.  After luring them in with some pretzels, I managed to catch one.  He wasn't necessarily happy.

The board games made their debut as well.  We had an epic game of Settlers of Catan and spent a couple of nights getting our butts kicked by Alec at Set.






Christmas Day itself was lovely and relaxing.  Alan's mom set up a scavenger hunt for us and the two teams raced for the finish.  We exchanged gifts and cards and just enjoyed the time in each other's company.


Overall the trip was great.  I loved getting outside and doing things in the warm sun.  It was luxurious to have everything be in English.  It was great to not go to work for a week.  And it was wonderful to make some memories with my new family.

Friday, December 6, 2013

English Festival Festivities



The last month has been incredibly rewarding, absolutely infuriating, and just outright exhausting. 

My kindergarten has been preparing for the English Festival event that we're doing this coming Tuesday.  First off, the two 7 year old classes were supposed to do a musical. The school wanted to do Hansel and Gretel. They had a DVD with a professional showing of kids doing it. Excellent, choreography, costumes, and scenery ideas done. The only problem was that the musical was done in Korean. So the Korean ESL teachers and I set to work translating. We had it done in a few days and we made scripts for the kids. We picked the parts based on who we thought would be best, of course. I handed the cast list to the Korean teacher and she told me it wouldn't work. The kids whose families have been with the school the longest get the best/biggest parts. It didn't matter that those particular kids probably couldn't do it very well. The casting was going to be based on...seniority...not skill. From that moment I washed my hands of the whole play. I had put a lot of thought into how to put on a really good show. And the school didn't care. All they wanted was to please their biggest money makers. 

The parents weren't satisfied though. They called and called. "Why is my kid a munchkin? Why doesn't he have a bigger part?" The school decided to divide up the lead roles among a few kids.  Just switch them out. We had 2 Hansels and 3 Gretels. For a 15 minute play. We even drew names out of a hat. 

It wasn't enough to placate the parents. The school had to cancel the musical. 




Besides the musical, each of the ESL teachers was given a class and we were told two prepare two pieces for the performance. We had a month. It should have been no problem. 

A week later, we were told we had to prepare something for the special English classes too. Okay...but the performance for the special class kids was a week before the Little Campus (the English kindergarten). So now the time to prepare was cut in half. (This actually didn't apply for me. Turned out that my special class performs on the same day as Little Campus). Still doable. And the performance, earlier this week, went okay. 

Yesterday, with 3 practice days left, we were told that the entire show wasn't long enough (they had to fill all the time from the cancelled musical). We were to combine the two 7 year classes and combine the three 6 and 5 year classes and come up with four more songs (with choreography) for each to perform. That's pushing it with only three days to go. Thankfully, I have the 7 year olds who are a bit quicker than the younger kids. Plus, two of the four songs we decided on already had a bit of choreography that the kids knew. I came up with the choreography for the other two on the spot as we were teaching them and we finished learning it today. Phew. Okay I can breathe now. 

JUST KIDDING. Recall that my special class is the only one performing on Tuesday. This morning, my supervisor told me that since I'm the only class, I need to make the performance longer. Add another song.  And give them more lines to memorize for their personal introductions. This class doesn't speak English and I've had a hard enough time trying to teach them the two original songs in broken Korean with two hell-raising 5 year olds in the mix. I expressed the imprudence of her idea given we only had two days left to teach the kids and make it performance-ready. No luck. I have an hour today and an hour on Monday to whip these kids into shape. 

To say that I'm nervous for Tuesday is an understatement. The quality of my kids' performance directly reflects on how well I've taught them.  My kids and I have invested a lot of time, patience (lack of?), and hard work into this show and I want my kids to do well. But given how unorganized and last minute much of this has been, I'm pretty worried. 



That's not to say that this has been a completely negative experience. Since I've been spending an increased amount of time with the same kids, I've gotten to know them better and I feel like I've established relationships with them. When I ask my kids to sit down while we're watching others rehearse and they all dog-pile me in the attempt to sit next to me or curl up in my lap or hold my hand, it makes me feel like this whole fiasco was worth it.  When Mary and Suzy sprint away from the bus to come hug me goodbye, I don't feel like the figure who stands in the front and speaks in tongues anymore.  When the girls come seek me out because they want to be in my class it makes me feel good. They aren't just those kids anymore. They're my kids now. 




Overall it's been an exhausting month and I'm so ready for my vacation. We'll be spending Christmas in Hawaii with Alan's family and I can't wait to have a week free from children, language barriers, and work. After Tuesday, it'll be time to let loose and relax. 

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Bacteria, Barbecue, and Beauty

This week has been a pretty full one.  Last Friday night, Alan and I met at Seongnamdong for dinner. There's a burger place a few doors down from ANell Salsa called the Toolbox.

It's a nice little restaurant and the food is delicious.  The burgers have egg and bacon on them in addition to the meat patty and have some sort of Korean sauce.  The meal is served with fries but they also have chili fries you can get for extra.  I would definitely recommend them.  





Saturday morning, Alan and I woke up early and headed to my school.  The kindergarten was putting on an art exhibition for the parents and I thought it'd be fun to go see it.  I had originally told my supervisor that I wasn't going.  In fact, all of the English teachers said they weren't going.  So she was pleased that we showed up.  The weather was gorgeous that day and the exhibition was outside, so it was really pleasant.  And I got to show Alan the zoo that is my school.  He met the ostrich.




That evening, we went back to Seongnamdong for salsa dancing...only to find that there was no salsa party at ANell that evening.  We were already out, so we decided we may as well try out the foreigner's bar in the area.  JJ's.  It's also on the same street as ANell (everything seems to be on that street) and down a little alley.  They have a dart board and a pool table, so we got a drink and shot some pool for a bit.  Alan pretty much destroyed me.  I'll have to work on my pool skills.  But it turns out that JJ's has a swing/line dance night every Tuesday.  I'm not much of a swing dancer, but maybe we'll have to check it out sometime.




This work week went by pretty quickly for me.  Thursday evening was my school director's birthday. So she took the entire Little Campus staff out for dinner.  She even let me bring Alan.  Dinner was at a really swanky place called 삼산 드마리스 (Samsan Dumarisu) near the Lotte Department Store.  It was the biggest buffet I've ever laid eyes on.  They had different sections for foods for different countries.  Korean, Japanese, Chinese.  They had pasta, salad, bakery items, steak.  Desserts galore.  A large section for fresh fruit.  It was all delicious.  I'm pretty sure that both Alan and I felt amazing after that meal.



Yesterday, Friday evening, Alan's lab group was going out for Korean BBQ and invited me to join too.  The place is within walking distance of home, so it was pretty easy to get to.  Just along the river.  Korean BBQ is always an interesting experience.  Meals in Korea are very communal, so you don't really get your own set of food.  They have side dishes on the table and you have your designated cooker who puts the meat strips on to cook.  You just use your chopsticks to grab meat right off the wire and eat it.  Another interesting (disgusting?) thing about Korean BBQ is that there always seems to be someone who likes to eat the meat raw.  Not sure I could stomach that.  But it was a pleasant meal and it was fun to meet Alan's professor and his lab group mates.





Now, this entire week, I've been battling an ear infection.  The first one I've ever had.  But in my attempt to clean it out myself with cotton swabs (which doesn't help at all), my ear canal became nicely inflamed and full of fluid.  I was nearly deaf in my left ear for the last three days.  It was as though I had an ear plug in at all times.  Unfortunately, the hospital is only open during the hours that I happen to work.  Thankfully, they are open for a few hours on Saturday morning.  Alan and I got up early this morning and went to 도강 병워 (Dongkang Medical Center).  They had an English website, so we were under the assumption that this would be an English speaking hospital.  It wasn't.  But, my Korean was efficient enough to communicate to the receptionist what it was I needed and I got myself in.  The nurse didn't speak English either, but the doctor spoke some broken English.  He looked at my ear and told me there was a lot of discharge.  So he grabbed a tool not unlike the suction tube you'd find at the dentist and sucked everything out of my ear.  It wasn't exactly pleasant.  But I felt pretty good afterwards.  I could hear again.  He prescribed some ear drops for me and with my broken Korean, his broken English, and some entertaining miming he was able to tell me what to do with them and how long I needed them for.  The nurse directed us to the pharmacy just across the street and I got my ear drops.  The entire ordeal was extremely cheap.  The doctor visit itself was about $20 and the medicine was about $25.  Not bad.




Temple entrance
This afternoon, after getting back from the hospital, we grabbed the 807 bus out to the middle of no where.  Mt. Gaji is one of Ulsan's Twelve Scenic sites and is the tallest mountain in Ulsan.  There's something called the "four seasons of Mt. Gaji".  The mountain looks very different (and very breathtaking) each season and so we've decided that we're going to make the hike through each of the seasons.  Today we made our fall hike.  The trail starts at 석남사 (Seoknamsa Temple).  The temple is run entirely by nuns and they charge an admission fee to see the temple.  What we didn't know was that they only take CASH.  The nun was extremely kind though and she ushered us through anyways.  The temple was a Buddhist place of worship and it was really pretty.
Scenery at the temple

Temple
Hiking trail at Mt. Gaji
Scenery
The hike itself was pretty strenuous.  We made it about halfway up the mountain, but since we didn't show up till 2pm, we weren't able to finish the entire hike.  It's dark by 6pm and on such a trail, it wouldn't be a good idea to be wandering around in the dark.  The peak we got to though, was a helicopter stop.  You know, in case you die and they need to come collect your body.  The view, even from halfway up, was still gorgeous.  It started raining before we reached our turnaround point, so the way down was a little slippery, but with gravity's help, it was still faster than the way up.
Hiking trail at Mt. Gaji


There was a lot of quartz along the trail

Ropes to help your hike


The four seasons of Mt. Gaji
The red triangle is where we made it to









Our view

Back at the bus stop after our hike


Overall, the day has been really good.  Full of ear relief and beautiful scenery with my wonderful husband.  I'm really looking forward to going back to Mt. Gaji.  

Monday, November 4, 2013

Fulbright Dinner with a Brief Detour -_-;

So I'm finally getting around to writing this post after my wife, family, and friends have bugged me for about a week to do so. On October 25 the Fulbright office/ administration hosted their annual researcher fall dinner. It was up in Seoul so that meant that it was a full day and possible nighttime journey. Getting there was simple enough: take a bus to the KTX station and get a ticket to Seoul. I had to stop by my lab at UNIST to take a sample out of the furnace, but fortunately the university is on the way to the KTX station (quite possibly one of the greatest benefits of living near the edge of Ulsan).

As for the KTX ride I used what is known as a KR Pass to purchase my ticket. You go online to the english Korail website, reserve your KR Pass (foreigners only), and print out the e-ticket after completing the checkout process. KR Passes can be purchased to last various lengths of time, from 1 day up to 10 days. The pass allows for unlimited travel on any Korail train for the time the pass is active. You'd have to take the train quite a few times to make it worth the cost, but it can be very cost effective if used properly. For example since I was going to Seoul and coming back in the same day it would normally cost about 95,000 won for the round trip. The KR Pass I bought was only 46,600 won (ya being a youth, normal passes cost 58,200). As one can see I paid about half the price of a full round trip ticket, which was awesome (although I've never tried getting round trip tickets so I don't know if you can). So after deciding on the length of time you want your pass for and buying the e-ticket (this doesn't charge your credit card btw, only when you exchange it for your actual pass at the station), you take the ticket to the clerk at the station and they'll print you out a cool card that has your KR Pass info on it. However you still must buy an actual ticket from the ticket desk if you want to have a seat (unless you don't mind standing) *spoiler this is foreshadowing*. It's just free with your pass. So when I was purchasing my ticket to Seoul the clerk mentioned that while I could get a seat TO Seoul all the return trains that night FROM Seoul were full, which didn't at the time didn't necessarily bother me too much.

The train ride there was rather uneventful, though I noticed the interesting phenomenon that the cities in Korea (at least the larger ones) are built in the valleys and plains between the mountains (valley basin?):
Imagine with a city

Everything else is just kinda crammed in the valleys where the buildings almost don't fit:
Actually about this cramped

Maybe this only holds true for Daegu and the southern cities, but as most of Korea is very mountainous I can imagine it is most likely similar everywhere. It is just interesting to see very clearly how the cities shape themselves to the geography.

After arriving in Seoul my first order of business was to find a KT Global store and finally switch over my prepaid SIM card to my ARC instead of my passport. After finding said store, however, it quickly became clear that they had no clue what I was talking about. Fortunately I figured out the nifty fact that the ktexpatblog website comes in English as well as Korean with exactly the same layout for once (instead of dumbed down English site with 2 of the 100 options of the Korean one). So I showed them the relevant section that says that plans activated with a passport (like Jess and my prepaid plans) expire in 90 days while ones activated with an ARC last for as long as the ARC. This was news to them so the customer rep called and then informed me that for prepaid plans it didn't matter. So much for all the scheming and time to try and get our plans on our ARCs (>_>).

Afterward I headed to the Fulbright building. Along the way to and from the cell phone store I believe I saw more Caucasians than I have the entire time I've been in Ulsan. It was actually rather amazing how many there were, if one can count like 10 being a large number. Tells you how many we see wandering around Ulsan. I was going to be remarkably early for the meeting so I killed some time in one of the local coffee shops called Tom n' Tom's Coffee. They had a bright electric blue lemonade that I tried that was very good:

It was delicious

The office itself was only a 5 minute walk away and I ended up being the first one there. As all of the Fulbright researchers, both junior and senior, starting showing up we all gathered in the conference room. The Fulbright offices aren't actually very big so this was really the only place that would fit all of us. We all started chatting with each other about our experiences thus far and what we are doing, etc. Interestingly there were grantees that hadn't actually started their grants yet, or had only been here for a week or two. It seems really late in the year to just be starting your grant but there wasn't anything that said you couldn't in the contract. Too bad it's already starting to get cold.

Pretty much everyone was based somewhere in Seoul, and those who didn't know the layout of Korea or Seoul itself very well thought that Ulsan was just an area of Seoul. If only. There were also some Ph.D. students that were researchers, though they were in the minority. They would be much older than the rest of us, which would be a different perspective on the whole thing. I don't think any of them were married, but I don't quite remember. The senior researchers were professors who were teaching or doing research at one of the local universities for either a semester or a year.

After chatting for awhile waiting for everyone to show up we started on our journey to the restaurant. The place was actually quite some distance from the Fulbright building. The Fulbright had two vans that could fit like 14 people between them, while the rest of us had to travel by subway. All of the senior researchers rode in the vans, as well as almost all of the girls except one. I noticed as she was the only one left, but she was deep in conversation and I didn't feel like interrupting her. Not sure she could have fit in the van anyway. The subway ride was very simple: hop on and go until you can't go no more. That meant about a 50 minute subway ride. All of us continued to chat along the way there, mostly about things related to what we were researching or for most of the people various things they've experienced in Seoul. I have to say it was nice having a subway system again (also the subways are incredibly smooth, so much so that when they aren't people tend to go flying a few steps cause they are so unprepared). Otherwise the ride wasn't very eventful and we got off at the end of the line.

The vans had to pick us up and drive us the rest of the way from the subway station to the restaurant, as the restaurant was really out of the way. The vans had already dropped off their first load of passengers and had come back to get us. Now when we first arrived at the place one is immediately struck with how fancy it is:

Front Gate

Part of the building (we weren't in that part)

Up the stairs to the front door

The front door


The lawn across from the front door

This was apparently going to be quite the dinner. When you walk inside you are greeted by hostesses in transitional hanboks (navy blue and white). We were lead into a rather large room that spanned all of one side of the building:

I sat against the wall at empty table closest to the people

Half of the room was full by the time we arrived, so we sat down at the nearest available spots. It turns out a lot of the guys have trouble sitting in a cross legged position, as their knees and/or hips (I think) aren't flexible enough to allow their legs to lie near the floor. This makes it difficult to fit your legs under the low tables, so all of those guys had to stretch their legs out fully to fit. The tragedies of inflexibility.

Dinner was a multi-course traditional Korean affair that lasted for quite some time. The hostesses just kept bringing out food. People were getting rather full near the end of the dinner, but the food just kept coming. It was all very good, though of course I had a few particular favorites, including a chicken salady type thing and mini burger patties which you may be able to see in the picture. After dinner we had a bit of history of the Fulbright Korea program and then everyone introduced themselves and what they were doing:

The director giving a history lesson

As far as I could tell I was the only one outside of Seoul to attend. After the introductions we all went in the backyard around a bonfire and had tea or coffee. The fire was built with a ridiculously big log that needed to be cut into about 4 normal sized ones, and sadly contributed to the fire dying down sooner than I would have liked. Nevertheless we left around 8:30ish from the place, which in a way was a better thing than the predicted 9:30.

The ride back on the subway was better as we got to sit instead of stand the whole time (being the first on the subway has its benefits). We all very quickly parted ways and I kinda rushed to the KTX station as fast as possible. The trains leave every hour late at night, and as it was 9:55 by the time I got to the ticket counter I was cutting it a little tight. Now starts the tragedy that was the rest of my evening. I was told there was only standing room left on the train. Standing. For the 2.5 hour train ride to Ulsan. However, I didn't have any choice if I wanted to get back that night. I found a space to stand in between cars 16 and 17 and was there for quite a long time until we were a long distance from Seoul. Sadly I discovered the train was quite full on Friday nights. I guess everyone wants to visit their family every weekend <_<.

It was late at night that my self inflicted tragedy began. I was in the baby changing room sleeping when my alarm went off for about when we should be there. I saw on my phone that we had passed Daegu and though the cursor wasn't quite at Ulsan I figured my phone just wasn't getting enough signal. Therefore I prepared to get off at the next stop, because I didn't remember making a stop between Ulsan and Daegu. Turns out I was mistaken. I got off and headed down the escalator only to realize that the terminal I came out at wasn't Ulsan. The realization struck me like a lightning bolt and I rushed back up the stairs to get back on the train...to find the train pulling out. "Well" I said to myself, "I'll just sit here for an hour and catch the next train. It sucks but oh well."

Turns out that wasn't possible. The station was too small and I'm guessing only certain trains stopped at it. The station was actually closing for the night. It was a bit of an effort to explain that I was going to Ulsan but had accidentally gotten off the train. The guard told me that I was free to stay until the morning, but that he was shutting everything off. So I was quickly looking up on my phone if there was an intercity bus that went to Ulsan, as I remembered that there was such a thing from Busan to Ulsan and that it ran late at night. Fortunately Naver got me the directions and I managed to convey to the taxi driver where I wanted to go. He kept telling me there weren't any buses or taxis going to Ulsan but I kept telling him it was fine. He got me to the bus terminal around 12:20. Sadly the last bus left at 11:20 and the earliest bus wasn't until 6:30. That left me with quite a bit of time to kill.

This is the bus station in the morning.

Fortunately there was a GS25 across from the bus station. They are open 24-hours a day and as they sell meals to eat (ramen mostly) there were a few tables to sit at. So I sat there and read and slept for a few hours. It wasn't as awkward as it sounds since there was actual a fair number of people coming in and out throughout the night. But it was still sad.

Across from the bus station

My hangout for a few hours

At the appropriate time around 6 I went over to the bus station and bought a ticket to Ulsan. At 6:30 I hopped on the bus and don't really remember much till I got to Ulsan.

Me outside the bus station

The bay for the Ulsan bus

Inside of the bus station

Inside the intercity bus. It was cozy and uncrowded.

I had no idea where I was (it was downtown somewhere) and my phone was dead. All I knew is that I needed to find a street that ran east-west as that would probably have a bus that would run to my house. Ya for using the sun to find a cardinal directions. It helped that I recognized the Lotte department store, though I was viewing it from the other side. The bus came rather quickly, but it didn't really matter as the sun had come up and so it wasn't freezing anymore. I got back home around 8ish and promptly passed out after saying good morning to Jess.

So overall I enjoyed the night out that I had. I met new people, had good food, and visited a new place while exercising my "find my way" skills. Though next time I might prefer finding out about different places in a more planned fashion. I only spent 6000 more won than I would have if I had gotten off the train properly (which is almost a miracle). Everything turned out just fine. Pictures of the valleys and the blue lemonade were taken from Google in case someone cares.